IS IT BAD TO CRUSH ON SOMEONE WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP



The first time I met him was at Les-signora, he was everything I wanted in a guy. He is
handsome,dark, huge, biceps, in short he is a "Yoruba demon".  He was seated close to the bar man, enjoying his wine. His phone rang and while going out to receive his call he accidentally bumped into me, and I dropped my novel. He apologized and helped me pick it up. I went in to sit and ordered a glass of wine, he came back in and apologized once more. He said "I'm really sorry about the other time", I needed to answer that call urgently, and I said " no problem". He saw the novel and asked are you a fan of JOHN GREEN, wow I've also read it "The Fault In Our Stars". Then I said "yes", he then said Pardon my manners my name is oladotun what's urs? I told him I'm Becky. then we continued our discussion......... We exchanged numbers and the friendship grew........

I was so attracted to him even though am in a relationship. Is that bad?
Pls drop ur comment...

Comments

  1. UnknownOctober 2, 2019 at 10:05 AM

    Attraction isn't something that's bad, but must be kept in check. Sometimes u crush on someone while u r in a relationship it doesn't mean u cheated. But like I said keep it checked

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  2. Abiola ErinfolamiOctober 4, 2019 at 10:57 PM

    Yes , there is nothing bad in crushing while In a relationship. Human being is running by emotions, but you need to create boundaries when making friend with opposite sex when you are in a relationship. it's very expedient to keep it on check, remember you are still in a relationship.

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  3. UnknownOctober 9, 2019 at 1:10 AM

    There is nothing bad in that, Buh u just have to take your time to watch him very well if it is
    someone u can be close with..,

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